I’m Terri, a recovering Hot Mess Mom
Sometimes I really wonder why adulting doesn’t come with an instruction book but definitely being a mom should!!! To put it another way, do you ever feel lost or embarrassed that you don’t seem to have your -ish together? Are you pretending things are ok but secretly you feel like a failure?
Friend, you are NOT alone! There is a whole community of us misfit moms who don’t seem to fit into the mold. Maybe you are a creative or neuro divergent and get easily distracted. Maybe you are just juggling a career, family, and home life with no energy at the end of the day. Or, maybe you are like me and you did not come from a traditional home so the whole thing is completely foreign!
Whatever the situation, there is hope.
If this hot mess mom can do it, ANYONE CAN!
However, this blog is for the misfits so you naturally neat and tidy moms probably should run for the hills…or the container store for the latest pantry solutions. Welcome to the safe zone for the hot mess moms. It’s not perfect but I share the things that seem to work for me and cautionary tales of things that didn’t. After all, I am a recovering hot mess mom who has found a passion for helping others escape the chaos that is weighing them down.
Let’s do this! You don’t have to do it alone. As a matter of fact, you can join our little community on YouTube, Facebook, and somewhat on Instagram…I’ve got to stop scrolling and actually post over there!
Mom Blog Posts
What is FlyLady Zone Cleaning?
Early on in my cleaning routine search, I stumbled upon phrases like zone cleaning, swish and swipe, and hotspot fire drill but had no idea the power of these simple tasks to transform my messy house into a real working home. Finding the FlyLady and subsequently, the FlyLady Zone Cleaning really helped me grow up…
Cleaning YouTubers Have a Secret
If you are anything like me, I became addicted to watching cleaning YouTubers during the 2020 shutdown. Although I was not home at that time, I still found it therapeutic to watch the methodical cleaning. 1. Cleaning YouTubers Plan To Clean One key takeaway that is not talked about by those cleaning influencers is the…
‘Cleaning Sucks’ Taught Me 5 BIG Lessons
We all can agree that cleaning sucks but do we really need to read a book about it? YES! It was seriously so much more than a quirky book. Today I am sharing the 5 lessons that I learned from ‘Cleaning Sucks’ and why they matter. 1. Understand What Cleaning Means Wherever you are, whatever…
Cleaning with Kids 101
Having kids at home does not have to mean a messy house but how are Moms really cleaning with kids? Today we are talking about tips for cleaning with kids but also how to teach kids to clean for themselves! Yes, please. Let’s be real, once kids enter the picture the house is never quite…
A Plan is What Momma Needs
why momma needs a plan by Terri K
5 FlyLady Alternatives if FlyLady ISN’T For You
The FlyLady Cleaning System may not be for you but is there any alternatives out there to try? Absolutely! In fact, I believe it is good to try out new cleaning routines every now and then just to avoid boredom. Today I am reviewing 5 FlyLady Alternatives and I am sure one of them will…